I'm fed up from that when any senior personal blame me for work which I did correct and asking me the reasons why and all you did? And for same I used to give them reason for what cause I did etc so they always blame me that I'm doing arguments and they insulting me purposely in front of all other staff even after doing sincere and hard work. And they just appreciate their experience only but not listening to me and feelings me inferior complex and for every cause they blame me and in this way they ruined my image in front of of management and reporting wrong feedback to management and for same my Institute management not promoting me for higher post since 5 year. And I also worked for 3 years without pay. So for this reason only I'm depressed and not able to sleep properly and if I'm thinking for to change Institute then also I'm not getting becoz of my profession is of lecturer and behind one vacancy there are many candidates and since 5 year I couldn't get this so please help me becoz I'm worried about my livelihood and career.

Dr. A.K. SrivastavaPsychologist10yrs exp

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Hi Lybrate-user thanks for sharing your problem .we cannot change our past start your life with new energy. Take proper sleep of 7-8 hours. Its in our hand to be happy what it requires is slightly change in your approach ,stop thinking that something wrong is happening ,people are saying something ,just ignore all this, we get life not to make others happy first important thing is to make ourself happy. We can not make everyone happy its just impossible so just focus on yourself and completely avoid other's comment. Make yourself as much busy as you can so that you don't get time to think on all this. And its everyone's right is to be happy we cannot change the thinking of people or situation around us but we can get the things or reasons which make us happy, what we can do is to live every second of life, what do you want to be, what do you want to eat, to do, your career, your friends, your likings etc. Develop some hobby, make some good friends, make yourself busy, as much you will think you will get frustrate and will gain nothing, live only for yourself, and this can be possible when you will involve yourself in some other things ,the main concept is that make yourself as much busy as you can so that you don't get free time to think on this. First start from joining any hobby class and make any good friend with whom you can share everything ,do some yoga and meditation, expand your social circle. If you further need my help you can contact me. Take care. 

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