Hi doc, am belongs to a very Orthodox family they don't trust girls. Am very bright student but they stopped my studies and now going to get married with a highly educated boy n am just graduate. He always said you need to improve your English your style and many more things. Now am feeling very low.in February 2015 I got engaged but till the September he called me just 2 or 3 times but he talked very nicely and friendly. I feel he always ignore my whatsaap msg. He msg me according to his wish. He said he forget to call n msg me. Its a arranged married. Please help me what should I do :(

Mr. Sajen JohnPsychologist3yrs exp

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Dear Lybrate user, Nice of you to write and mention the issues you are facing, you do say in your mail that you are bright. Since that is the case you will at the right time take the correct steps. Do not be so concerned about the future, live your life fully day to day. If you do feel you would like to improve your accent or do require some training in today's world there are lot of online courses that will help you. Do take some time to think out and list your goals of life, it will be a good guide for you and help you steer your life. Enjoy your life and all its moments, be open and frank with your prospective life partner. Its always nice to live your life according to your goals. Regarding the whats app messages be kind and courteous there is no need for any expectations, you have a life ahead together for that .Wishing you all the best, do write back or call if you have any further concerns. With Regards, Sajen John. 

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