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I am 26 .I am married for 2 years. We did unprotected sex for 2 years. I did not take any precautions nor did he. Usually he used to bring out his thing at the time of discharge. I dint get pregnant anytym. Now as I want to conceive, I thot to consult a doctor for dos and do nots. Bt the doc, much to my irritation, only asked weather I take any precaution or not. She told me it is worrisome how you hvnt conceived yet if also your husband does not discharge within you. She has told me to do some test. So I want to ask is it really a danger?

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No its not a danger at all. You did not wanted a issue and hence you continued like this. However please note that everything is required on time - now if you want a issue he has to discharge inside the vagina - please try for a month daily/each time you intimate. When there is no result even after 4-6 weeks of doing so then you need to go for test and all.
Fundamentally you should have sex in midweek between your periods. that is 10 days to 16 days before your next period. the semen need to be deposited inside the vagina. why was it being discharged outside your vagina before? now onwards let the semen be discharged inside the vagina. wait for conception. if the conception is delayed normally we look for semen analyses and the tubal patency in the women. these things can be done after wards. first let the sperm go inside and get deposited inside you, for two/ three cycles and see. all the best
Can't say if it's a danger sign or not. But one thing is there. Coming out just before ejaculation is not a method of contraception. Infact it does not provide any protection against pregnancy or STD'S. U did not get pregnant after such a long time also could also be due to your timing of having intercourse. But yes a cause of infertility can not be ruled out also. I recommend try conceiving keeping all the parameters in mind. More importantly the timing. And if still no result after a month or two. It's best to follow your Doctors advice and get yourself investigated.
It is not a danger. Inspite of having regular unprotected intercourse if a female does not conceive we call it as primary sub fertility and will start investigating whether basic tests are ok with both partners. I am sure your doctor must have asked you to test the basic tests. Please do not get irritated.
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