This is regarding our marital life. I am married for 2 and half years. My wife was not interested in sex in the beginning months. But still we tried for sex twice. But failed to have proper intercourse, as she was not much into it. Then I had to leave the country for work and we were not together for 2 years. Now I have brought her along with me. But still, I feel like she is interested into sex. I tried to understand from her if it is her fear or any other problem. But she says that she doesn't feel like doing such things. She is always trying to postpone having sex. I want her to enjoy sex and I don't want to force her into it. What should I do overcome this situation and make her comfortable.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist16yrs exp

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Hello- a common complaint for many women is the loss of libido, or sex drive. Often this symptom is associated with menopause, but adult women of varying age groups have noted a decline in sex drive. At initial phase most women aren't aware of all the factors that affect libido, or the treatments available to help. Many are too embarrassed to share their worry with a physician. Patients are often told they are over stressed or depressed and given an antidepressant. Unfortunately, many medications actually make the problem worse. Many women note that stress is not the major issue, and that depression is really frustration that their libido is not in sync with that of their partner. However certain aphrodisiac herbs (in ayurveda) and specific tips can offer significant help for this condition and overall well-being.  

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