I am a 21 year old girl who recently had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. We tried having sex thrice and it hurt me when he inserted deeply every time. We used saliva as a lube but it still hurr every time. Also when I insert my finger it doesn't hurt me but when he inserts it in, it hurts. And I don't exactly feel any pleasure when I insert my finger inside me, but I do get a lot of pleasure from touching myself and always orgasm. Is sex not meant for me? How will I get pleasure without pain from it? Please help me.