I am a 46 years old male and last year january I developed anxiety disorder/depression problem due to which I had started over thinking. Due to this problem a few months back I started this thinking of fear of death and due to which I often get panik attacks. My chest area and heart are often in pain and fear of it which constant pain. Please advise a pressure point to stop my over thinking and to calm down my mind. Due to this problem I am also not able to fly by air.
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So it seems like panic attacks with depression. Do you know if any event stimulated this reaction last year? If you have no specific cause, where you weakened by stress etc. Fear will tend to find a form and so it is not surprising that if you have not dealt with the original fear, there could be other reasons you will create to be frightful: the flying or death, for example. You are having panic attacks and need to meet with a counselor immediately. On that person?s advice you may have to meet with a doctor and get on medication if so advised. Even so you must continue with the counseling to develop coping mechanisms to face the daily challenges of life. Because you are not handling fear well, you tend to over-react to normal fear with abnormal panic attacks. Then your panic reaction, which is fear based, irritates you easily and gets you angry. In other words the anger/irritation is an escalation over the fear. This is not advisable and it is happening because you are not dealing well with the panic. Anger is a cover-up feeling for the fear, and people may mistakenly respond to the anger whilst the scare remains unresolved and it may also increase because of the discomfort you have caused to others with the anger! if this anger is not expressed then it can turn inwards and cause an anger-related depression. About the issue itself: do you know if this is a family trait, or is the family by anyways less to socialize, or have you had any problem with fear because of some family or childhood experience? Have you ever been embarrassed in public by someone that it has left an indelible mark in your personality? You can take the answers to these questions to a counselor and resolve the same. Any way you must deal with your fear of people and it will be the best solution to your problem. You need to change your perception of the fearful stimulus then you can change your response to the fear. The first one is the best and will preempt the need for the second. If you are already far gone into the reaction mode, then you need both responses to counter the attack. The way we see things in life (like half empty or half full glass) is very dependent on our attitude. Attitude may have developed over many years but fortunately can change in a matter of sustained choices made and acted up on now. Accordingly you choose to see things as either threatening or as an opportunity. The opportunist will be positive and work with the situation to make good out of it. The individual who sees it as threatening, will, out of fear, try to avoid/run away from the situation or react with anxiety. Yes, self-belief does impact it too, but you can see that prior to that, perception will tarnish the belief system too. Here, you can see that all the resolution lies in just changing your perception/attitude, even if it is against odds. Changing your response, despite the perception, is building up of your reserves and resources to handle any contingency that life throws up at you. And life throws up situations quite regularly and heavily. In the meantime do some confidence building exercises by attending a personality development course, public speaking skills course (i suggest you join the toastmasters club), work out at a gym to build good self-image, and join social events to practice your skills. Surprisingly many people are often in the same boat as you, and so you are not alone. The very people you are intimidated by may be afraid of you too, though not to this extent! there are three important developments to have to make an autonomous personality: awareness, intimacy and spontaneity. If you are super aware or too conscious of yourself, it will affect the intimacy and spontaneity. Although your problem is now directly to do with intimacy, you can see that they are all connected. Go and work on these matters with a counselor for this level of panic reaction to disappear from your life for good.
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You�'re going to need far more than a pressure point to relieve the anxiety. My suggestion is to seek out a nearby counsellor to talk through your feelings. The reasons for your anxiety need to be understood first. Secondly, get a psychological evaluation done to assess if medication needs to be started in consultation with a psychiatrist�s clinic. I wish you all the best on your recovery journey.
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Hello Mr. lybrate-user, did something tragic or life threatening happen in and around january last year? Did you not consult with any psychologist for your panic attacks and anxiety? Panic/anxiety mostly stem from certain fear, in your case you are afraid of death. Death is the only truth of this life and it has to happen someday but not today. All of us even knowing this truth go out to work, perform all activities even do dangerous stuff. Are happy and enjoy each day as it comes. A professional counsellor can help you and train you to control your overthinking and also address your panic/anxiety as these are treatable. You can even avail online counseling here at Lybrate. Kindly know that your situation can get better and will get better, have that faith and trust in yourself.
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