So I?ve been trying to have sex a few times over the past 3 years but it?s never worked. I have tried with the 2 boyfriends I?ve had but it has never properly worked. With the first one it only went in in one position, which was incredibly painful and he kept saying it felt like he was hitting a wall. Then a year later when I tried with my new boyfriend, we were unable to physically get it it in for the most part. It just seemed to get in an inch at most then not be able to stay. (I thought the problem may be solved with using lube but it didn?t help and just made it even harder to try get it in). I don?t understand this as I was wet but I was?t feeling horny so I don?t understand how that?s even possible? I have been to the doctor and she said I don?t have any STDs and am just tight, just surely it should?t be this hard. Even fingering gets painful for me most of the time! Sex for me has always been very painful, I?m not even sure if I can call it sex as it has barely even been in. Any help you could give me would be much appreciated as I?m desperate for answers! (Sorry for using colloquial terms, it?s been a while since I?ve done sex Ed so I can?t remember what everything is properly referred to as!) Steffie :)