I am 28 years old. I have a psychological problem. I have been suffering from 10 years which I am going to explain, I don't it's a psychological disturbance or low self-confidence or a phobia. Actually I am from a very poor background family and I and our family very honest and kind hearted man. I always think that my life partner will be very honest with me and for all and also kind hearted. 12 years ago I saw 3 girls whom I liked from my side not their side. I always think about her that when I will Mary only with which type of girls. But gradually I can't controlled myself I only thin when I will get her. But she ignored me and she looked at me like very way. I got very hurt and disappointed. When I see that girls I get hurt everyday. And after that when I was thinking to sex with any girl except her and I got very much fear it means like they cannot meet or sex with other girls. When I am in alone see any girl thinking about sex with her unnecessarily fear come out on my mind and I become panic and fear. I think they only want to use my money and leave me because I understand that they are not good girls. I think if I marry to good, and honest girl whom with me at every sad and happy times the problem will be solved. But marriage is not my hand so please, help me with effective treatment to cure it because only I can understand what type of pain it is.