My son is 11 years old. He doesn't concentrate on his study and has less interest in books. He also doesn't do any domestic work without asking to do him. He doesn't respect elders whom he doesn't like we both me and my wife tried our all efforts to teach him the value of study and good habits. But he does what he likes only. We have beated him many times for his mistakes n carelessness. He also doesn't keep care of his belongings .I am very anxious about his future. Please help me what to do in such case?

Dr. Gaurang LineswalaAyurveda16yrs exp

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First of all don't beat your child. It doesn't help him and you too. It creates negativity for you and Society in his mind. Our children are reflection of ourselves. What they are is what we are. So first of all observe the thought and behavioral pattern of you and your wife. I think when you talk with your son most of time it is in advisory form. Don't advice so much. Nature give him all senses and intelligence to learn from outer world. He will definitely learn if we give him time, space and positive atmosphere. Always think what you feel at his place with your parenting behaviour. Try to communicate with him and create a confidence in your relationship. Without advising him he will himself do in his way but actual result is what you want. Warm regards.  

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