Hi, My wife is undergoing insecurity and emotional distress with lot of possessiveness towards me. Difficult to convince her and handle day to day activities. Kindly suggest me come out of this problem. Thanks
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If you are not contributing to her insecurity, then she may have her own issues that need to be looked at. If there is a huge discrepancy between the two of you in various ways and capacities there also she will feel insecure. So the thing to do is to find out what the insecurity is and then go about dealing with it. It is better if she is taken to a counselor and that person can be objective and neutral to help both of you see where the insecurity lies and can help both of you sort it out. If you attempt to help her on your own, she can never accept any definition because you cannot be the cause and the solver of the problem. She will see prejudice in it. If it is purely her problem her family may be able to help identify the issues that may have contributed to this from her childhood. It is fear based and there may be unresolved fear from her childhood. After you come to identify the problem you must play a very supportive role to help her in all reasonable ways to build the security and behave in a manner that is helpful to her. Your best bet is the assistance of a counselor.
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