I got married 4 months ago, it was an arrange marriage, I met her 2-3 times before the final decision, I found the profile ok so I said yes, but after marriage I realised her behaviour is very strange, she is very status conscious although she is from a normal family, argues on almost everything, worst thing is we fight daily for no reason, I keep on saying sorry for no reason to resolve the things and to save the relationship. There are many points I am pointing one here; she aspects me to awake till 3-4 am as she is habitual of it, I normally sleep at 10-11 before marriage, I try to awake till 1-2 but I have to go for duty early so I need proper sleep, she keep on sleeping till 1 noon, I take my breakfast by myself n lunch from any dhaba, evening when I came again we fight because I am unable to awake till 3 am, she gives me point she feel alone when I sleep n she wants to talk romantic for the whole night as we are newly married, so all couples wake at night. We have normal sex life.
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lybrate-user first of all you should take some leave from your works nd go outside with your partner. Enjoy some time nd try to understand each other .than share your problems with your partner. Hope your problems will b solve. Have a happy marriage life if you want to consult more than take Tim nd talk to me.
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Hello lybrate-user! We have different habits and comfort before marriage! After marriage at some point everyone have to do adjustments! It's good you r adjusting and try to wake up till 1! But is she is adjustable? You talk with her and try to solve the issue! I know one couple, husband gets so tired after work they hardly got intimate but they are living happily because of understanding! If you both don't having understanding than in future more problem will happen! U solve the issue than to continue in what you both are not happy!
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You should give her your point and resolve issues amicably. All newly married couple don't wake up the whole night.
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In addition, Couselling is essential in this case!
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