After 7 years of long relationship, my girlfriend is avoiding me and telling me to forget her and don't be too serious for her but for me it's very hard to get over her as I deeply love her and telling and she tells me now that I am not perfect for her and all these years she didn't loved me. I don't know how to get rid of this situation, how to control myself thinking about her and hurting myself that she would never come back.
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First of all, you should know that a relationship can only last if an only if it is mutual. I think she is the best medium in your life to let you learn that you did not understand her properly. For the past 7 years she was with someone else too, or she recently got someone else. In both cases, as far as your future is concerned, you should be thankful to her that she got rid of you. Imagine what would happen if your relationship turned serious and you were married and had 2 kids and then she comes up with the same explanation that she gives you now? A disaster!! Try to get the best of the worst!! There are many lovely people in this world. You will definitely get someone. Start looking and moving further in your life. You can not carry on with some one who does not want to be with you. It is hard, but everything changes when you give yourself a strong message. You will attract someone who is good for you. You need to distract yourself in to creative activities and channelize your energy into the things that you like to do. Make physical activity a regular and essential part of your life. Many studies show that people who exercise regularly benefit with a positive boost in mood and lower rates of depression by producing happy hormones called endorphins. Improved sleep & self-esteem is a benefit of regular physical activity. Good Luck!
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