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I am a 26 Years Old working in a MNC, I have an affair with a 37 years old lady, though being into a relationship from past 8 years to a girl with whom I am ready to get settled but I am not able to move on from that lady, she is honest and caring, when I met her ,she already had an EMA and when I proposed her after few months of our friendship, she told me about her EMA but I kept on approaching her, seeing me depress, she started meeting me and soon these meetings resulted in intimacy followed by affair, after few months I requested her to end up with that EMA (about whom she told earlier) ,she even tried but was not able to move out of it, now whenever I ask her, she simply remains neutral and I get hurted with it. What shall I do? I really feel messed up into all these and not able to identify right or wrong. Please help.
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In life love, passion and lust have thin boundaries. As long as it is a consensual sex between 2 consenting adults then it is medically not wrong. But different societies, and culture promote monogamy as the way of life and consider these events as ethically wrong. Whether this is right, varies between individual perception according to their own brought up, cultural values, and knowledge. What is right for one is wrong for another. So don't make life complicated and live as it comes. Enjoy life without making others or yourself unhappy.
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