We have been married over 1.5 years and trying to have sex since six months. We tried around 9-10 times and are facing problem of not having successful penetration due to one of the following reason: 1. My penis not being that hard enough to go in her 2. Initially we thought the vagina was wet enough to slip in. Now I think its not that wet enough. I would like to use some kind of lube which does not cause any allergies, itching etc to either of us. My doctor had given me Lignocaine Hydrochloride Gel IP. But I read somewhere that it will make my penis go numb if I did not use condom. We are bit disappointed and we are desperate to have our first penetration ASAP even if it is without the condom (it is also fine if we conceive a baby). Hence please suggest a gel which just help mine to slide smoothly into her. Please confirm if its not fine to use Lignocaine Hydrochloride Gel without condom. Also suggest anything that helps us. Thanks so much!