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Numbness Questions

Please tell me the name of a numbing gel/cream I really don't want to feel any pain for first time intercourse I want to use it for the first time. I am a virgin and married. I want to use numbing gel/cream to numb hymen ONLY FOR FIRST TIME so that my partner can penetrate and after that we will start proper intercourse after 20-30 min when my hymen will become normal, I don't want any suggestions that "first time it will pain" "don't be afraid, try long foreplay" etc. Because we have tried all but whenever he tries to penetrate I feel lot of pain so we stop. My married life is in danger please please I beg you help me tell me name of a numbing gel/cream to numb my hymen only for first time. Hope someone will understand my situation and tell me name of gel or cream.

MBBS
General Physician,
Please tell me the name of a numbing gel/cream I really don't want to feel any pain for first time intercourse I want...
Hi lybrate-user, Understand the situation Whether the first time or the millionth your vagina is no different, it’s designed to have sex without pain as when aroused it will relax, lubricate, open and increase in size, as it’s flexible it will also stretch to accommodate a penis and then return to normal after sex.  Most commonly if sex hurts the first time it is due to the woman not being ready, either not emotionally ready so tensing-up or not physically ready so not aroused enough for penetration. This means penetration is forced, causing pain and damage which increases risk of STDs and infection, your vagina is not designed to make sex unpleasant or harmful, it’s designed for pleasure.  Use more foreplay, ideally orgasm at least once before intercourse, and use lubrication if/when needed, go slowly and communicate with your partner. Enjoy sex without penetration for a while and if that develops into intercourse, if he can slide himself easily into you during foreplay then carry on like that - allow some natural progression, rather than stopping and saying 'Now it is time for penetration' take pressure off by letting it happen naturally.  The only possible difference to your vagina would be if your hymen is intact - which is rare as by the time you have sex it’s likely to have worn away, stretched or torn from foreplay or masturbation – sex doesn’t necessarily tear your hymen as it can stretch, even if it tears it doesn’t always hurt. If you believe the myth that sex hurt the first time then you NEED to educate yourself a lot more about how your vagina works and about sex before you have sex, these are basic things someone of your age and someone who is about to have sex should know. Learn how to prevent possible pain rather than accepting it as inevitable, because it's really not. If you are nervous then this will also help ease those nerves (nerves can make sex painful) because you'll know what to expect and how to prevent problems such as pain during sex - knowledge combats fear.  Dear, reason I am not suggesting you any numbing cream because it would be dangerous as you can't feel when damage is being done - this means you cannot stop him when he's causing you harm, so he may cause even more harm putting you at higher risk of infection and STD's, also when the numbing cream wears off the pain may remain.  If you want you can use lubricant but avoid numbness cream Thanks.
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Hi, In my Right leg I am having numbness sensation due to sitting on chair more than 5 min also. I used to keep wallet in my back pocket due to that I have this problem may be. I am taking MyloNerve tablet suggested by doctor but not feeling well still. I need suggestions & some physiotherapist names.

Dr. Julie Mercy J David Raja 90% (4242 ratings)
Erasmus Mundus Master in Adapted Physical Activity, MPT, BPTh/BPT
Physiotherapist, Chennai
Hi, In my Right leg I am having  numbness sensation due to sitting on chair more than 5 min also. I used to keep wall...
The piriformis muscle can also irritate the nearby sciatic nerve and cause pain, numbness and tingling along the back of the leg and into the foot Treatment of sciatica pain, low back pain and leg pain from piriformis syndrome, using stretching, exercise, physical therapy, ice and heat. It looks like you are anaemic. If you have back pain after you sit for long hours then it is due to your haemoglobin levels as it is important to check that. Anaemia always leads to the symptoms of being tired and also having back / leg pain though there may not be any pathological reasons for back pain. The lower end of the vertebral column is inflamed and that bone is called coccyx bone and the condition is called Coccydynia. The conservative management would be to keep ice in that inflamed area during one time in a day and also to sit in a hot water bowl where the penetration of the heat would help to reduce the inflammation. And to reduce the weight falling on the inflammed surface we suggest patients to use air cushion pillow (also called as doughnut pillow) where in the buttock's weight will not fall exactly on the painful tail bone and that would automatically reduce the pain.
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Can I use Anbesol on hymen for the first time intercourse to numb it as I am afraid of pain and I want a painless sex only first time. Please help me I am getting married and really want to numb it first time.

Dr. Mukul Saldi 92% (2052 ratings)
Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), MD - Alternate Medicine, CFN
Sexologist, Karnal
Can I use Anbesol on hymen for the first time intercourse to numb it as I am afraid of pain and I want a painless sex...
It's ok to use a local anesthetic for first time sex if you are scared of pain. It's better if your partner wears condom . Otherwise his penis will also become numb and he may have erection issues because of lack of pleasure .
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Kuch dino se mere haath sun hone lge hai sote sote ho jate h. Or cramp bhi aa jata h pair ki ungliyo me. please karan or upaye btaye.

Dr. Nitin Chaube 91% (107 ratings)
Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS), hepatitis management
Ayurveda, Singrauli
Kuch dino se mere haath sun hone lge hai sote sote ho jate h. Or cramp bhi aa jata h pair ki ungliyo me. please karan...
Dear lybrate-user, please get Vit. D levels evaluated and also blood sugar. Please see if you can get an X-Ray of the spine also done. As a medication you can apply Prasarani Oil top downwards Regards
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Hello Doctor, From last 10 months I have suffered different symptoms like neck stiffness, Headaches, heart palpitations, ringing in ear, eye floaters, sometimes chest pain and dizziness/ giddiness. All started after some stressful events at work and fathers health. I was told anxiety by some doctors and was brushed off. After few months I started to get tingling numbness and electric shock feeling in head that sometimes run down to the toes and a MRI of brain was done that came out normal. Was put on some antidepressants but didn’t help. My left leg started to feel weak and doctor did a lumbar Spine MRI that showed some mild lateral recess narrowing at L4-L5 but I don’t have severe pain. After running blood tests I was found severe deficiency of VIt B12& D and now put on some deficiency treatment. I have improved on headaches, ringing in ear, tingling and numbness but my weakness in legs is still there. Also suddenly sometimes my nose becomes dry and feel stuffy and my left eyes feels weird with some strange feeling. No one says a definite diagnosis and all put it to stress and anxiety and this makes me think that something wrong is going on. Please help as I had been to emergency room couple times with increased BP.

Dr. Jatin Soni 93% (28701 ratings)
MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
Hello Doctor,
From last 10 months I have suffered different symptoms like neck stiffness, Headaches, heart palpitatio...
Apart from taking symptomatic treatment we should plan to take tablet Alprazolam 0.25 at night after clinical examination and Few diet tips - Not to eat fried food items and Can eat All green vegetables, moong , chana , Dal , rice etc And to apply ghee over chappati and don’t apply oil over chappati And to drink milk mixed with turmeric powder twice a day And If possible eat eggs on alternate days And If possible in breakfast eat atleast one bajra ka rotla And Eat seasonal fruit
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Hi, I am getting electric zaps throughout my body in this winter in kashmir, it never has happened before and this winter has been dry and coldest. But I get numb electric zaps from brain to toes sometimes. Please help me.

Dr. Archana Agarwal 93% (229 ratings)
BHMS
Homeopath, Kolkata
Excessive cold can cause such symptoms. Otherwise if you have any other medical complain like vit. B 12 deficiency, or diabetes or any other nerve problem it can cause such symptoms.
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I am a 37 years old female. My legs have turned very thin. Recently I have started feeling pressure on my knees sometimes and pain and numbness in my lower legs. Sometimes I get muscle cramps in foot. Please tell should I visit a doctor.

Dr. Shobhit Tandon 90% (153 ratings)
MBBS, PG-Diploma In Clinical Pathology
Orthopedist, Sri Ganganagar
I am a 37 years old female. My legs have turned very thin. Recently I have started feeling pressure on my knees somet...
Yes do visit nearby doc. Also get Vitamin b12 and d3 tested. Mostly it is due to its deficiency. It it's so then I will advice you medicines.
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Sir my age 24 very numbness hand legs Headcheese CBP liver all clear but vitamin B 12 363 sir any problems.

Dr. Jatin Soni 93% (28701 ratings)
MBBS
General Physician, Mumbai
Sir my age 24 very numbness hand legs Headcheese CBP liver all clear but vitamin B 12 363 sir any problems.
Apart from taking symptomatic and your ongoing TB treatment I will suggest you to take injection vitcofol 2cc intramuscularly every fourth days for five pricks over the buttocks through a health professional
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Hi, Dr I got my hand pain especially near right thumb connecting 2 fingers. Numbness is there when I wake up. I observed that there is bulginess in my that area I got my mri done. But as such nothing came. This pain is from several years. Since it is my right hand I feel restless.

Dr. Bhumika Agrawal 90% (58 ratings)
BPTh/BPT
Physiotherapist, Hyderabad
Hi, Dr I got my hand pain especially near right thumb connecting 2 fingers. Numbness is there when I wake up. I obser...
Hello lybrate-user, its a Good news that nothing came out in MRI. But pain, numbness is something that has to be taken care of as its been an year. I would suggest you please start with hot water formentation thrice a day with application of local ointment. But do not massage. Start wearing wrist-finger binder asap to avoid more wear and tear of the muscles. I even suggest you to take 7 days of Ultrasound Session from the Physiotherapist and as the pain subsides immediately start with the Strengthening Exercise for the wrist and finger both. Do let me know how is the pain after 7 days. Thank You Get Well soon.
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I am suffering from cervical pain may be due to computer work for hours, suffering since 4 months, I went for physiotherapy, went to ortho doc, results for both were temporary, I am practicing yoga since 2 weeks I have great relief on pain but I still feel same numbness (sensation) on back of my head (left) and upper neck portion. Tell me cure for this.

Dr. K V Anand 94% (21608 ratings)
BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology, Positive Psychiatry and Mental Health
Psychologist, Palakkad
I am suffering from cervical pain may be due to computer work for hours, suffering since 4 months, I went for physiot...
Your neck is made up of vertebrae that extend from the skull to the upper torso. Cervical discs absorb shock between the bones. The bones, ligaments, and muscles of your neck support your head and allow for motion. Any abnormalities, inflammation, or injury can cause neck pain or stiffness. It will take a little time to clear the stiffness. don't worry. Practice yoga and physiotherapy. You will be alright in around a month.
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