Hi. I'm 35 years old. I'm a software engineer in a very good firm. But I am finding it difficult to understand what a person is indirectly trying to say and respond to him; when a person a person is cunning. I'm not able to handle people who are rude or talk in an indirect way. I know I need to ask questions but when the situation arises i'm not able to ask them. I'm putting pressure on my wife because of this. She is trying to handle everything. She tells me to talk in a particular way, gives real life examples. I understand what she says but i'm not able to implement it. Even if i'm able to for a particular situation, i'm not able to do it consistently. This is putting pressure on our marriage. I feel inadequate, that i'm not man enough. This comes naturally to most ppl, but i'm finding good simple task very difficult. I'm not able to respond to my relatives, or friends or to the personalities whom I face in daily life. I'm able to handle work related issues, but unable to do so outside of work.

Dr. Vijay Kumar KalavakuntaAyurvedic Doctor15yrs exp

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Sir, greetings from your ayurveda wellness coach. Though this issue is bit sensitive but it is easy to handle and you will be absolutely alright and there are good remedial methods for the same. First of all I want to point that please divide office and home into two different parts and just leave all the office stuff at office itself. This will help you to relieve 50% of your problem and you can balance family life, as you are about to enter midlife crisis which has to be corrected immediately. Secondly regarding social handling situations, this issue also can be corrected if you plan well-organized manner and minute changes in your tasks and with mere maintaining of planners you can beat this issues and you will get ready answers for all the questions or problems. When we speak medically or scientifically or in ayurvedic way, I can clearly make out you are into transition phase of anxiety and stress which has to be corrected as soon as possible. I suggest you to join me for consultation and I am sure that I can help you out with these problems with a proper counselling and needful natural medications if indicated. The only thing is you need to develop trust on the system and this will transform your wellbeing. You can check my profile so that you understand about me and then you can plan for consultation. Looking forward to receive you. Thanks and regards.  

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