Asked for male, 38 years old from Nagapattinam
The first and most important step is to accept yourself, as you are. That will be the foundation you will build your life on for the rest of your life.
Learn to be thankful for what you have
Accept the lessons from the past, but have no regrets. The past will never be back. So remember what you learnt and move on
Stop worrying about others’ perception about you. For Others, you are just a small part of their lives… but your life is yours 100 percent
Be Nice to yourself. If you are overcritical… life becomes a drag
Ask everyone you care for, about what they think your strengths are
Never ask for feedback on weaknesses. That is a domain you have to explore yourself
Learn from the past, do not dwell there. Nothing can be achieved by brooding over the past
Remember to communicate. There are never any unique problems. There is a merit to seeking ideas and feedback from people who care for you
See that you have no scope for self doubt
Be willing to act and accept the learnings from any action
Take initiative…. As newer areas of your competency evolve, go ahead take risks
The solution for your challenges is to divert the energy within, in a direction that is so inspiring that the anger is no more a priority for you.