I had my first sex. When I try to insect in she feel pain and she is not allowing me in. Should I wait for the turn or shall I force in. Is it Good or bad?

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You need to be slow and steady. Sex or for that matter physical intimacy can be a matter of fear if you are virgin. Bleeding and pain is normal and these do not last long. Make sure that you are well-lubricated before you allow havesex with your girlfriend. Talk to your doctor to have a better idea about these things. Guys should indulge in a lot of foreplay to arouse your partner and do not just rush into it, no matter how tempting it seems. Ensure that both of you have an amazing experience of making love.

Sharmila Majumdar · Accepted Answer

You need to be slow and steady. Sex or for that matter physical intimacy can be a matter of fear if you are virgin. Bleeding and pain is normal and these do not last long. Make sure that you are well-lubricated before you allow havesex with your girlfriend. Talk to your doctor to have a better idea about these things. Guys should indulge in a lot of foreplay to arouse your partner and do not just rush into it, no matter how tempting it seems. Ensure that both of you have an amazing experience of making love.

K V Anand · Answer

Dear user. Please do not force. First time sex will include stress and general anxiety for anyone and therefore the expansion of vagina may not take place. Repeated trials and extended foreplay will help. Take care.