My fiance 30 years old, drinks almost every night either 2 bottles of beer or 1 bottle n a quarter of some other alcohol. We are in a relationship from last 10 years n I think this habit is there from last year or more. I don't think he drinks because of any sad or happy emotion. He just likes to drink n feels relaxed. His skin has turned dark near heart. I m afraid he has some heart problem. He says it's just because he pricks there when he has anxiety. I don't know if both problems r related but I am worried for his health n my future with him. I've tried stopping him or trying to explain but it usually ends up bitterly. Please suggest. I am sure even if I try he won't take any medicine because he enjoys drinking n feels no problem in it.

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If your fiance is not listening to you and careless in is approach then give a last try and give ultimatum that you r moving on from relationship and leaving him if he is not getting himself treated by a competent life and relationship coach. I may also help you in this, consult me. Even after this, if he doesn't listen then move on he doesn't deserve a partner like u.
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