I'm in love with a divorcee. I want to marry her as we do share a good bonding & relationship. But I am worried about my future sex life and about my children. Her previous relationship lasted for 10 years & she don't have any kid from that relationship so because of this reason she got divorced. Presently we are enjoying good relation physically & mentally but just worried about future uncertainties like Hiv. I mean if we have unsafe sex can I come in contact with this disease. If I have safe sex how can we have kids. I'm very confused Please do advice me in this please. She is 9 years elder to me her age is 31 years.

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Dr. S.K. TandonSexologist5yrs exp

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Please get first her hiv test. If negative why to worry. Yes regarding issue ovulation date mid way of menstraul cycle. That can easily be calculated by ultrasonography. On ovulation day if you do sex there is maximum chances to become mother if rest is ok. Follow.

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Dr. Jolly AroraSexologist30yrs exp

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You are bit confused. One side you do not want to leave her. Other side worried of hiv. Get test done and everything will be clear. Also if she has problems in getting pregnant. Then talk to her and today there are many ways by which you can get pregnancy and that can be done. Since you like her so much then do not think much and after the test marry her.

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