I am in relationship with a guy since 10 years. We both loves each other and getting married soon. But he is very aggressive . He abuse me and blocks me when he feels. But I can't do anything as I am badly addicted to him. First I want to get out this addiction because it makes me suffer and pls tell me how can I stop him for being so aggresive and abusive. Please tell.
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Hello, give him homoeopathic medication - schwabe's bacopa monierri 1x/ thrice daily and kali phos. 6x/ once at night - take them for 4 weeks. Then let me know. Management: there are few yoga poses which helps in calming the mind and relieves stress. Exercises: practice shavasana or corpse pose as it looks like a dead body. If practiced correctly and with full efforts, can relax every body part, relaxing not only the body but also the mind: spread the legs one to two feet apart, the toes are turned outwards, the heels facing each other, a comfortable distance apart. Bring the arms a little away from the body, palms turned upward. Relax the neck and allow it to turn to the side if it is more comfortable. Close the eyes and focus the attention on the body, breathing normally. Begin focusing each body part and relaxing it, then moving on. Keep the mind focused on relaxation, the breath should be normal. Relax the whole body. (the mind and body are deeply connected. If the mind is occupied by thoughts and worries then the shavasana will be unsuccessful. Therefore one has to acquire the stability of the mind along with the stability of the body.) anuloma involves inhaling through both nostrils together and exhaling each breath alternately between the left and right nostrils. The thumb of the right hand is used to manipulate the right nostril, while the pinky and ring finger are used to control the left nostril. There are many other poses of yoga like balasan, setu bandha sarvangasan, uttanasan, garudasan, savasana, triconasana, viprita karani, marjaryasana, dhyana, bhujangasana, anulom-vilum, pranayam, etc. But first learn these under a qualified yoga-teacher as many poses are prohibited in certain diseases or medical conditions! another stress-buster can be getting involved in any of your hobbies (may be a childhood hobby which you used to enjoy a lot!) - dancing, singing, painting, listening to soothing music, playing musical instruments, etc.
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Dear lybrate user. I can understand. Addicion happens when you find any pleasure from this person. If you don't find any pleasure, addiction is not possible. What is the pleasure you are getting from this person? please let me know. Secondly, once the condition is so bad, you should come out of the relationship, for sure. Do not try to change his behavior. Instead, you try to change. I suggest online counseling and cognitive therapy to you. Take care.
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