I am 31 years old and I am smoking cigarettes from 14 years including weed did not had a good childhood, I don't get firm erections I think I would not be able to have good sexlife with my wife, I am the eldest in my family I have two younger brothers my father and mother wants me to get married they already began searching please help me doctor I am worried and I m going into depression I want to quit all this but no matter how hard I am trying its just not happening I am addicted please help show me some way doctor I come from a very disturbed family background and been lonely from 12 yrs now I sometimes think I am gone mad that I have some psychic problems.