Hi I am 42 years old divorced lady. I am not active physically with anyone since 2011 and I had vaginoplasty since 2016, now I want to marry my age a man, when I have intimated with him I tired my virginity again start flow blood and swell my pussy lips and severe pain during intercourse, what should I do? I want to give birth and do sex as well, can it be smooth during sex? I can't bear the pain during the discharge urine, inflammatory pain when come out urine, and didn't insert penis due to so much.