I feel very bored by this vacation. My mom compel me to came with her to her house but here I have no friends. Can you suggest me some ways to avoid boring.
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Dear lybrate user, I can imagine how disappointed you feel when you are forced to accompany you mom to her house. To fight the boredom you may try the following: 1. Try to make friends at that place. There will a few other kids belonging to that place, or some kids like you, who are there for a vacation. They may be different from you but it's a great opportunity for you to learn about other people, their living styles etc. And you might actually make some good friends, which is a great asset. 2. Go and play games of your choice, may be cricket, football, vollyball, basketball. Or may be go for swimming if possible. 3. Try to pursue your hobby, see if you can find someone to guide you. 4. Read books, magazines etc. Of your interest. 5, may be just eat and sleep and relax for a month. Because you will not get this opportunity as you go to higher standards. 6. Go on excursions to nearby places of interest. 7. Go for trekking, cycling with your friends. While doing all this please remember, that you should not be taking undue risks and please inform your mother about it in advance. Now just try to think from your mother's view point. Do you think she also needs a break from her daily routine? do you think you mother also needs to meet her own parents and relatives and siblings? please understand that your mother also needs some time to relax. May be at your own house, she is so tied down that she is also bored sometimes and she probably keeps doing the same chores every day, so that you can be comfortable and happy. But she also needs a brake. Your mother probably compels you to accompany her because she is concerned about your safety and other needs if you are left behind. So now, once you go back home, try to help her in her daily chores, in whatever possible way. Also start taking responsibility for your own jobs like cleaning, washing your clothes, sometimes cooking for yourself or for the family. Once you start doing this, your mother will think that you are capable of looking after yourself and may be next time she might give you little more freedom. In a family each member needs to understand the other perons's needs and some time each member of the family has to sacrifice some thing for the sake of others. It's all" give" and" take" have fun.
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Hello, yes at this age, it is little hard for you to stay somewhere you do not have friends. You could take this as an opportunity (or a personal challenge to do your best in a given situation!) and try following things. 1. Try and make new friends (i am sure there will be people around). They doesn't need to your age - little older or younger will do as well. Hey, it is better than not having friend at all. 2. Go for a long bicycle rides and explore the new place. 3. Don't have bicycle - may be go for a long walk or even better long runs. 4. If you are into reading - best time to grab a book and spend your time reading it - there won't be anyone to disturb you or break your link! if you are not into reading. Then try reading something in an area of your interest. For example adventure, science fiction or whatever sounds interesting. Make sure to grab a thinner book though! 5. If you are into building things. Grab paper, wood, wood chips, stones whatever sparkles your eyes and start building. And if you are not into it. Try something anyway - you never know it might become your new hobby the bottom line is instead of staying in a victim zone where you keep blaming the situation and passing every minute as if it is a life time (a little exaggeration here.) take charge, stand up, go out, do something. Replace the word boredom with curiosity. That will give you new eyes to look around and I am sure once that happens - you could turn this into one of the best vacations ever and your friends back home will be so jealous of you. Remember it is always - it is all how you look at it! make your vacations the grand one. Enjoy and do share your experience. Best wishes,
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