Hello sir 1 year back I was in relationship and after 6 months of dating we got broke up due to misunderstanding. At that point of we were possessive about each other but now we hardly talk. I tried my level best to get back with her but she refused when she tried I refused. At present she is dating someone else and I am getting jealous even I tried to date someone but I am not able to develop love feeling inside me after that. Even a friend of mine had fall in love with me but I said no when she proposed me. Please help me to developed love feeling again I am really depressed

Ms. Samiksha JainPsychologist11yrs exp

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It' s unfortunate that you both are not talking to each other after a period of intense relationship. What were your reasons for getting into this relationship and what made you possessive of her? this happens in many relationships where the couple is mutually infatuated and wants to show their best side to each other and later when the newness wears off, then the real self shows up which may not be very accepting of the other person. It looks like you two started off very intense and then differences cropped up because of which you are not together anymore. You need to have some real and solid reasons to get into a relationship if you want it to last. What choices do you have now when she is not showing interest? learn your lessons and move on. Look for a benefit from this breakup which will help you to heal and look back at this relationship with sadness rather than despair. Give yourself another chance by telling yourself that you have learnt from your mistakes and are ready to move on. Many more girls will come in your life who are equally good or even better than her. 

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