I am having a strained marital relationship because of which I have lost interest in lyf I am nit living with my husband since one years due to our differences ours was arranged marriage three years ago I got emotionally attached wid my husband I still love my husband the most I sacrificed alot for him but he never reciprocated my love he never cared for me he was fever there for me in my lows my bad times he is self centred money minded selfish nd emotionless person but still I am emotionally attached wid him nd I am unable to get over him I cry everyday for him I want him back in my lyf as my husband we r not on talking terms ryt now he has blocked me on call nd watsaap which is adversely affecting my emotional mental nd physical health I feel sad lost interest in day to day activities feels worthless hopeless I feel I am good for nothing when I feel anxious about my lyf I don't know why I go through induced vomiting problem I feel lyk going to washroom again nd again nd pur my fingers in my mouth nd vomit nd increased urination increased thirst feeling of releasing stool by going to toilet repeatedly since 2019 I am having this problem I had arranged marriage in 2018 after that I fell in love nd when I didn't got that love back when I got emotionally attached wid him nd he didn't got attached or fell in love with me when I did everything to make him happy when I was there for him during hia financial crisis nd mortgaged all my jwelleries still he didn't developed any kind of emotional attachment or or compassion or love for him for him I don't exist in his lyf I don't to how to deal wid this emotional breakdown sometimes I feel lyk crying sometimes I retialate to my parents when they say something which I think its wrong which pinch me inside I want to lead a normal nd happy nd peaceful nd stable lyf but I am unable to do so on my own stress strain anxiety sadness emptiness is there ryt now I am on medication of a reputed psychiatric I am on lamitor od 100 mg two times a day betacap tr 40 mg petril md 1 mg atonil 10 mg qutan 25 mg nd prothiaden 50 mg I just want to know am I on right medication or medicine need to get changed or improvised also I gained weight in these two years I was 51 ryt now I am 70 kg I crave for food sweets due to depression I am having bulmania please doctor help me I need your valuable suggestions nd if medicine need to get changed or something please help me to deal wid this low phase worst phase of my lyf please doctor I need your help I will be helpful if you will give me suggestions nd advice md medicines.
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Dear Lybrate user, I read through your question. It must've been extremely difficult for you going through this. Being in a relationship without any reciprocation of your love and effort is very disheartening and distressing. Along with your medications, I will suggest that you go for psychological counselling as well, it will help you with all your concerns, bulimia, depression, relationship concerns. A combination of medications and counselling will be more effective treatment and help you in the long term. Please hold on to hope, remember this too will pass with the help. There are people out there who will help you, support you and love you for who you are and will reciprocate, who will help you have the life you wanted. Reciprocation is very important in a relationship, there should be enough effort, love and understanding from both sides. When you have done so much to sustain a relationship, you and your effort must be respected too. It is also important to take care of yourself in the process, that's extremely important. You are important too. Please take care of yourself, take help, have a support system to who you can express, who will support you. Do the little things that bring you happiness, relaxation. If you need help you can contact me too. All the best! Â
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You seem to be suffering from emotionally unstable personality disorder. A combination of mood stabilisers and SSRIs would do good. I don't see them in your prescription. Also, you need to have cognitive behavioural therapy for long term ability to manage the perceived triggers. Good luckÂ
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Dear Lybrate user a unstable relationship brings lot of stress and challenges. I can truly understand how tuff this is for you. At the same time you need to understand the you need professional help to get stable first and stop harming yourself on any way. You are going through adjustment issues with depressive, anxiety symptoms. Consult a psychiatrist. Good luck. Â
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Good Day Friend, I can understand your concern. As you aware body and mind are closely interconnected, Means any emotional disturbance like depression or anxiety can cause physical disturbance in body. That's why you experience vomiting sensation, weight gain, irregular sleep, indigestion, PCOD, headache and many more. Root cause for all these is your " Thoughts" and overthinking about past. So you need a holistic treatment approach to manage and control and divert your thoughts and in parallel manage your body. It's an addressable problem, if you are willing to make few changes in your mindset through psychotherapy and few lifestyle changes, dietary changes and daily routines. General advices will not help in such situation and there is no one fit solution for all. First take the step to ventilate your feelings, emotions and pain to professional us. Feel free to reach me for further assistance to overcome this situation. Bee positive. You will be alright soon.Â
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You look like you are in a serious mess and on medication. I suggest that you meet with a marriage counselor and have some therapy for both of you. Even if he does not come, you must go for some help for yourself. Relying on medication alone is not enough. There is no point of loving him if it is not reciprocated and for that there must be some external help. Marital issues can be quite complicated and needs professional help. There are too many details which the counselor will get to know and then do the right thing over a period of time.Â
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