Hello doctor's, I am 32 years old and just want to know why I never feel romantic and never feel like to have sex or not even like romance at all. I really don't like it only sometimes desire happen only once but only for some minutes. I don't want indulge in this at all. This is the normal thing but for me it's too difficult to do. Kind of fear in me of pain or don't feel like just bcz of pain. Means I never feel excited or never enjoy why? I hv health issue like hypothyroidism, I got irritated easily, it could be a problem for my love life plzz help me to get out of this sir? Help me out please.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist14yrs exp

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Hello- a common complaint for many women is the loss of libido, or sex drive. Often this symptom is associated with menopause, but adult women of varying age groups have noted a decline in sex drive. At initial phase most women aren't aware of all the factors that affect libido, or the treatments available to help. Many are too embarrassed to share their worry with a physician. Patients are often told they are over stressed or depressed and given an antidepressant. Unfortunately, many medications actually make the problem worse. Many women note that stress is not the major issue, and that depression is really frustration that their libido is not in sync with that of their partner. However certain aphrodisiac herbs (in ayurveda) and specific tips can offer significant help for this condition and overall well-being.  

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