Can you please tell me how to prolong intercourse time when it is not due to anxiety?

Question

Here is a technique that may work for you, if you take the time to learn it. This works if you are making love with your man lying on top of you. It is a bit harsh on the man, but this is really the only way that works for women consistently. Once learnt, it gets easy on both of you, and you can make him last an hour whenever you want it. As he is on top of you and thrusting, he gets to a point where you know he is going to climax soon. If you wait too long, he can?t be stopped. But with practice, if you learn when to act, you can make him ?pause.? Here is what you need to do. Reach down and hold his testicles with one of your hands. Then just squeeze them hard enough to cause him just enough pain to make him lose the urge to climax. This will take some practice. As soon as he feels the pain and loses the urge to climax, your man will have a tendency to pull his penis out of you. Now you need to trap him in a lock. Wrap your legs hard against his buttocks so he cannot pull out. At the same time, grip his penis hard with your vaginal muscles. And to really lock him down, hug him hard and lock your hands behind his back. Do all these three things together, and he will surrender. By now he would have lost his urge to climax, if you did it right. If necessary, squeeze his testicles once more to cause a little more pain. If it worked, you will both lay quiet for a few minutes, with him still erect and inside you. Then he will slowly start the act again and start thrusting. When he gets to the point of shooting, if you want him longer, just do all the above again: squeeze his testicles, wrap your legs around his buttocks, grip his penis with your vagina, and hug him very tight and lock your hands behind his back.

Sathish Erra · Accepted Answer

Here is a technique that may work for you, if you take the time to learn it. This works if you are making love with your man lying on top of you. It is a bit harsh on the man, but this is really the only way that works for women consistently. Once learnt, it gets easy on both of you, and you can make him last an hour whenever you want it. As he is on top of you and thrusting, he gets to a point where you know he is going to climax soon. If you wait too long, he can?t be stopped. But with practice, if you learn when to act, you can make him ?pause.? Here is what you need to do. Reach down and hold his testicles with one of your hands. Then just squeeze them hard enough to cause him just enough pain to make him lose the urge to climax. This will take some practice. As soon as he feels the pain and loses the urge to climax, your man will have a tendency to pull his penis out of you. Now you need to trap him in a lock. Wrap your legs hard against his buttocks so he cannot pull out. At the same time, grip his penis hard with your vaginal muscles. And to really lock him down, hug him hard and lock your hands behind his back. Do all these three things together, and he will surrender. By now he would have lost his urge to climax, if you did it right. If necessary, squeeze his testicles once more to cause a little more pain. If it worked, you will both lay quiet for a few minutes, with him still erect and inside you. Then he will slowly start the act again and start thrusting. When he gets to the point of shooting, if you want him longer, just do all the above again: squeeze his testicles, wrap your legs around his buttocks, grip his penis with your vagina, and hug him very tight and lock your hands behind his back.

Amit Agarwal · Answer

We don't realise but the thought of prolongng the process itself is taking birth due to some form of stress or anxiety. U should keep yourself relaxed through yoga or meditation and out more attention on oral sexuality and stimulation. Go as much slow in the oral act and try to put years attention on years breathing during the entire process to slow yourself down, trust it would be a wonderful experience for both of you.