Hello sir/madam, i am having a very bad habit, of masturbating. Usually I do for one time in a day, but some other days I may do two three times. I am still single. Getting ready to marry. please help me sir, how to control and how it will effect in my marital life. please tell me sir. Thanku.
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Masturbation is normal but not the addiction to it. The problem with addiction to this is that you may go on to prefer masturbation to heterosexual contact, even when you are married. That obviously would be an insult to your wife and will lead to a lot of conflict. Heterosexual contact is very wholesome and the physiology is made exactly for penile and vaginal contact. You will instead enjoy a poor replica of this and not know or care for the difference. The second thing that can happen with addiction is that it will become compulsive and will have no boundaries or limits, since it can be done all by yourself, whenever, wherever, and however too. The big problem a lot of children get into is the guilt around this. A useful way to discharge the energy is to get into contact games, or exercises, or even hobbies to channelize it. Also do not spend too much time alone, and keep your mind occupied with other interesting things. It will also help to get into a friendship with this girl whom you are going to get married to and enjoy the relationship where there will be a lot of excitement when you fall in love. This will help you understand you feelings for this girl and learn to enjoy her companionship. You may also go for a sex education class to a counselor or sexologist and know about the many nuances of sex and relationships.
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