I am 26 year old married female. My husband cannot have intercourse with me because he can not penetrate. We have tried many times. Also, he is incapable of turning me on and is not interested in foreplay. He shows no advances in sex. Only tries, if I prompts him and reminds me. Its been a year and he seems to ignore the problem.

Dr. Tarannum ShaikhHomeopath16yrs exp

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Hello lybrate-user I think both of you need to sit and talk, because from your description there does not really seem to be a connection or effective communication between you two even in day to day life. Maybe you should try and establish good communication, and if that is already there then there should not be a problem in explaining to him your needs or trying to understand his. I did not understand why he is unable to penetrate, I hope he does not have erectile dysfuntion or premature ejacualtion issues which he is shy to discuss with you and thus avoids the act altogether. In case you are dry, you can try a lubricant to begin with, they r available over the counter named as KY jelly. You two can try and go on a short vacation maybe so that you can spend quality time together. Whatever the issue is, unless you both do not talk it is not going to help. For any more queries or help please feel free to contact me.  

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