Hello doctor. I had a 4 years relatnshp with my x bf. ND we had sex atlst 6 or 7 times in a month. We were sexually active in that tym. Bt due to some reason we broke up. Now after a gap of 4 yr. I am going to marry with a guy. He is doctor. Does he will find I had a sexual relationship with someone else. Is my vagina will b tight for not doing intercourse for 4 yrs. please help me. ND in wedding night when we will do sex. Does I feel pain like the first tym I did sex. Plzzzz help. Me.

Dr. (Lt Col) Dinesh KumarGeneral Physician22yrs exp

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No, it is not a compulsion that penetration for first time means bleeding in a girl or if penis goes inside vagina easily does not mean that she is not a virgin as hymen may be torn during games, cycling and various day to day activities and as most of the boys masturbate, girls also masturbate through clitorial or vaginal stimulation. Having relations today is not uncommon, concentrate on your love life rather than sex life with your new partner. You can go for the intercourse from the very first night but a good foreplay including oral sex will bring both of you closer and happier. There should not be much pain but male partners expect pain during initial days. All the best for a happy married life. For details consult privately.  

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