How to overcome from depression of a broken marriage? Husband is emotional abusive, but still I don't want to leave him. I am confused.
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If your marriage is broken I presume you are both separated. If that is not the case and there is abuse and you still want to live with him, there is something of concern in your background that can tolerate this. You need to deal with that with a counselor and identify what drives you to want to be in an abusive marriage. This is not advisable for you at all. If he is an abusive person, he needs help and if you want to live with such a person, you need help. You are wasting your life pursuing this relationship. I don't know to what extent you will take abuse, and that might be a dangerous concern.
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Dear Lybrate User, It can be quite difficult to break relations with someone you love. At the same time it is important to understand that by staying in abusive marriage, in a way you are allowing it. It is very important to understand what the husband and wife expect from each other. It is also extremely important to communicate with each other. I would request you, not to use terms like "depressed" and "broken marriage" Depression has to be diagnosed by a Psychologist or a Psychiatrist. I understand that you are feeling very sad because the marriage is working out as per your expectations, but don't call yourself "depressed" Similarly, if you are still together, it is not "broken marriage" and you can make efforts to improve your relations. I would suggest, you both to go to a Marriage Counsellor. If your husband is not willing, then at least, you may go to a Counsellor and the Counsellor will help you. Once you start the Counselling process you will get a lot of clarity and you will be able to take rational decisions. All the best.
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