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Marriage Counselling Questions

I am 33 years old. My parents arranged my marriage with a girl 13 years younger to me. Will there be any problem in relationship for this age gap, most importantly for physical relationship.

Dr. K V Anand 93% (31658 ratings)
BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology, Positive Psychiatry and Mental Health
Psychologist, Palakkad
I am 33 years old. My parents arranged my marriage with a girl 13 years younger to me. Will there be any problem in r...
Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. There is nothing wrong or unhealthy in marrying a 13 year younger girl. There will never be any sexual problems. I suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you. You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.
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Is it ok to marry someone with age gap/younger than me? My boyfriend is 2 years younger than me I mean he is 24 and I am 27. He loves me very much. But I am confused when he says that he wants to marry me. I think that somewhere in future he may get bore of me because of this age gap between us. I don't wanna lose him at any cause. I'm doing it right with him? How should I maintain myself? Please give me some proper advice towards this relationship.

Dr. Sajeev Kumar 89% (38565 ratings)
C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician, Alappuzha
If both of you have a clearcut understanding of life and your issues ahead of you, there is no harm in marrying someone less than your age and I personally know many families where the woman is older than the husband and they have lived for 60-70 years as far I know.
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Hi, How to maintain a harmonious relationship with a wife in a mid age without disturbing her calm even at tense situation. How to pacify and behave with her not to hurt her sentiments. It is requested to answer the query from psychological point of view please.

Dr. Sajeev Kumar 89% (38565 ratings)
C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician, Alappuzha
You need to develop an open and frank talk whereby you analyse all your matters. You have to give a feeling that you are caring and concerned about her and will support her in her old age and will be with her ti the end of life. Whatever small problems she has and is in your capacity to solve need to be solved and she will be placated.
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Hello, recently I got known some affair of my wife and I would like to forget. is there any solution?

Dr. Sajeev Kumar 89% (38565 ratings)
C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician, Alappuzha
There is no medical help for forgetting and you have to build up mind to forget and forgive. Mistakes are ther to happen to everyone and one day even you may be doing mistake. Both of you sit and talk your issues or go out to some place for an open talk and all these will solve the problems.
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I am 26 years old married women. Due to some disturbances between me and my husband he is showing too much of anger towards me.In return I am also showing the same. We lost mutual understanding, respect towards each families. How to control our anger.

Dr. Sangeetha P L 93% (139 ratings)
MPhil Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Thrissur
Dear lybrate-user, The question is not clear. Could you give some incidents to understand more about your problems? May be it is a good idea to consult a clinical psychologist to get evaluated. Keep yourself engaged, going for walks, simple exercises, part time jobs etc if you are angry, do not respond fast. Take a break for a few minutes and when you calm down, respond. Listen to his concerns, active listening would solve many of the problems all the best.
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It's regarding a divorce case, actually my brother got married, it's a typical arranged marriage, at the time of marriage date only we came to know the girl has bipolar disease. Lot of issues created at marriage hall and That evening itself girl family had left the marriage hall with girl. Then after my brother was completely wex frustrated and left native and went out of town. Now we planned to apply divorce, but girl family is telling that my brother and that girl got sex before marriage itself like. Just lying to make that girl stay permanently with my brother. Actually nothing happened like that. Now we want to prove on that, is there any medical test to prove this? Am confused kindly guide me on this?

Jitendriya Biswal. 88% (40 ratings)
Medicine (MD), Psychiatry, Post Doctoral Fellowship in Clinical Neurosciences & Therapeutics in Schizophrenia
Psychiatrist, Bhubaneswar
Hi Mam after carefully listening to the history, I felt this issues need a deep evaluation. As you are from Chennai. I would like to suggest you please visit NIMHANS for all the solution. They have free legal add clinic in NIMHANS. Definitely they will provide the best solution. For any details discussion you may consult with us online. There no such test to prove they had sex or not.. Only you can prove the girl is virgin or not.
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I am in relationship with a girl who live in another city. She loves me too much and I too .We have trusty relation she don't hide anything from me. She wants to marry me. But their is problem, she gets angry very fast and she misbehave with me and scold me very rudely when she gets angry. And if she make any mistake she start saying sorry every time. She is full of Irritability. Is it good decision to make her life partner for whole life.?

Dr. K V Anand 93% (31658 ratings)
BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology, Positive Psychiatry and Mental Health
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear user. I can understand. Please don't be panic. Anger is an emotion and there is nothing wrong in it. But you must ascertain why your girl friend is getting angry. I suggest you to talk to her in detail and know why she is irritated with you. . We are here to help you in every aspect of your mental and physical health. Any sexual or psychological problems can be cured with the help of various methods and therapies. I suggest you to post your query with every detail here. We will help you in overcoming your problems certainly. Take care.
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My paternal aunt was married to her first cousin. Her paternal uncle son. I married her daughter. Does this mean we have repeated first cousin for 2 generations and there is a risk for our children? My paternal grandparents are her maternal grandparents.

Dr. Sajeev Kumar 89% (38565 ratings)
C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician, Alappuzha
My paternal aunt was married to her first cousin. Her paternal uncle son. I married her daughter. Does this mean we h...
No.It means that the closest ancestor that two people have in common is a grandparent. (If they were any more closely related, they would be siblings.) “Second cousins” means that the closest common ancestor is a great-grandparent. Third cousins, then, have a great-great-grandparent as their most recent common ancestor.
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I loved one guy since 2016. He is good and we are going to marry soon. But I have problem with his elder sister. My would be is living in his sister house. I went to her house to meet him and to maintain relationship with his family. But his sister humiliated me in front of him. He didn't even responded to her sisters rash words. He just say calmly. I decided not to go to her sister house again but my would be wants to visit her house at the time of marriage. He wants me to stay in her house. Is my decision wrong? Isn't his duty that to protect his wife's self respect? Is this guy correct for me? I have no parents to suggest. I am in confusion. Please help.

Dr. Sajeev Kumar 89% (38565 ratings)
C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician, Alappuzha
Your would be may be afraid of her and could not open his mouth. No doubt, he should protect you and care for your feelings . After marriage see if both of you can stay in another house . Moreover if possible you should attempt to have good relation with his people also . You have a frank talk with him before deciding on marriage
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