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Marriage Counselling Questions

Hello, I have been married for 4 years now, we have two kids. But we are incompatible. And with every day I regret marrying him more and more. I'm afraid I might even come to despise my precious kids as they are the only thing that has me bound to him. So I need help.

Dr.Vijay Kumar Kalavakunta 97% (1052ratings)
Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surgery (BAMS)
Ayurvedic Doctor, Visakhapatnam
Hello, greetings from your ayurveda wellness coach. There are many reasons for a strained relationship. However, when it comes to married life and when you raise kids you need to act strong for your wellbeing and for the family. It is very much important to discuss your difficulties and issues with your husband and try to resolve the issues. However, if you are falling sick mentally or losing confidence, then definitely important to get proper counselling and get solution for your problems. As you need to take care of kids, your health is very much important and priority. I think you need to consult online with me so that I can guide you in this regard.
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I am a 29 years old married woman. Me and my husband have a very good relationship but recently he is not much interested in sex. He is a person with hypertension and anxiety so I understand things but what bothers me a lot is that now he watches porn occasionally. That too is not an issue but I feel he is not interested in watching me naked but he is much mor÷ interested in them. Recently when I tried giving him a blow job even then he was looking into someone else naked pics. I suggested we watch them together but he denied saying he is embarrassed. I kind of feel very insecure. What should I do. I tried speaking about it with him and it only leaded to arguments. He thinks I am only interested in sex.

Dr.K V Anand 93% (34418ratings)
BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology, Positive Psychiatry and Mental Health
Psychologist, Palakkad
Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. No need to worry. Cognitive behavior therapy can helpI suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you. You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.
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I'm 35 years old. I'm mentally abused by my spouse. He doesn't give any emotional support n financial support. I've worked at home like a servent for his sister and mother and now suffering from slip disc ongoing for the treatment and getting cured doesn't wanna spend time n money. What to do?

Dr.Saul Pereira 93% (49507ratings)
Reparenting Technique, BA, BEd, Transactional Analysis
Psychologist, Bangalore
You should both go for marriage counseling soon. This kind of abuse is not something you can live with for the rest of your life. You could talk to someone else in his family who is an elder or important family member to intervene. If it continues, you may think of returning to your family until some assurances are given and kept. I am sure there is a woman's help group too in your city and they can come to your assistance too.
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Dear doctor, good evening! my marriage is about 5 years now but from past 6 month my husband doesn't have any sexual interest at all. Also he hardly speak to me from 1 month. I ask him many times if I have done any mistakes or he have any problem. He just say nothing. I know dut to this pandemic he is having financial problem but why he do not want like talking to me for this I do not understand. Also he directly tells me that he does not get any feeling for physical. I check his phone also that he might having affair with other women but I don't get anything like that. Im so frusted now also worried that my marriage should not break as I have 3 year old son. Please help me what should I do or is there any way I can consult with doctors. Im sure he will not be ready to discuss with doctors also. Please help me doctor, im dying inside day by day.

Dr.K V Anand 93% (34418ratings)
BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology, Positive Psychiatry and Mental Health
Psychologist, Palakkad
Dear friend. You yourself told that he has some financial worries due to the present lockdown conditions. May be that is the cause of his present behavior. Please do not worry. We can clear this problem very well. You can contact me for one o one solution. Take care.
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I am 33 years old. My parents arranged my marriage with a girl 13 years younger to me. Will there be any problem in relationship for this age gap, most importantly for physical relationship.

Dr.K V Anand 93% (34418ratings)
BASM, MD, MS (Counseling & Psychotherapy), MSc - Psychology, Certificate in Clinical psychology of children and Young People, Certificate in Psychological First Aid, Certificate in Positive Psychology, Positive Psychiatry and Mental Health
Psychologist, Palakkad
I am 33 years old. My parents arranged my marriage with a girl 13 years younger to me. Will there be any problem in r...
Hello and welcome to Lybrate. I have reviewed your query and here is my advice. There is nothing wrong or unhealthy in marrying a 13 year younger girl. There will never be any sexual problems. I suggest telephonic counseling and online psychotherapy for you. You can contact me for further advice and treatment options. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care.
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Is it ok to marry someone with age gap/younger than me? My boyfriend is 2 years younger than me I mean he is 24 and I am 27. He loves me very much. But I am confused when he says that he wants to marry me. I think that somewhere in future he may get bore of me because of this age gap between us. I don't wanna lose him at any cause. I'm doing it right with him? How should I maintain myself? Please give me some proper advice towards this relationship.

Dr.Sajeev Kumar 92% (39992ratings)
C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician, Alappuzha
If both of you have a clearcut understanding of life and your issues ahead of you, there is no harm in marrying someone less than your age and I personally know many families where the woman is older than the husband and they have lived for 60-70 years as far I know.
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Hi, How to maintain a harmonious relationship with a wife in a mid age without disturbing her calm even at tense situation. How to pacify and behave with her not to hurt her sentiments. It is requested to answer the query from psychological point of view please.

Dr.Sajeev Kumar 92% (39992ratings)
C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician, Alappuzha
You need to develop an open and frank talk whereby you analyse all your matters. You have to give a feeling that you are caring and concerned about her and will support her in her old age and will be with her ti the end of life. Whatever small problems she has and is in your capacity to solve need to be solved and she will be placated.
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Hello, recently I got known some affair of my wife and I would like to forget. is there any solution?

Dr.Sajeev Kumar 92% (39992ratings)
C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S
General Physician, Alappuzha
There is no medical help for forgetting and you have to build up mind to forget and forgive. Mistakes are ther to happen to everyone and one day even you may be doing mistake. Both of you sit and talk your issues or go out to some place for an open talk and all these will solve the problems.
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I am 26 years old married women. Due to some disturbances between me and my husband he is showing too much of anger towards me.In return I am also showing the same. We lost mutual understanding, respect towards each families. How to control our anger.

Dr.Sangeetha P L 93% (183ratings)
MPhil Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, Thrissur
Dear lybrate-user, The question is not clear. Could you give some incidents to understand more about your problems? May be it is a good idea to consult a clinical psychologist to get evaluated. Keep yourself engaged, going for walks, simple exercises, part time jobs etc if you are angry, do not respond fast. Take a break for a few minutes and when you calm down, respond. Listen to his concerns, active listening would solve many of the problems all the best.
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