I am in a delima, pl help me. I am not sure whether my husband loves me or not, sometimes when his sister is not there he supports me, but once his unmarried sister is there he fully neglects me, he asks her advice for everything this really embraces me I feel like as if I am nothing just a servent. He never talks to me, not even if I am not well okay doesn't care, I have 2 kids and should not make any decisions regarding them also it's his unmarried sister. I feel like committing suicide, I am not interested in living also. Pl help me.

Ms. M Sri Vidhya VenkatesanPsychologist17yrs exp

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Hi lybrate-user! You need to be little independent and not completely dependent on your hubby. First you need to think this is a very simple problem. Try not to be very attached to your hubby. Instead you need to get more attached to your kids or make your sister in law friendly towards you and do not complain about your hubby's behavior to her. You become attached to others around you. Try to make others like you more than your hubby. Do not expect love, care and affection from hubby itself because certain guys will not be able to be the same in all situat�on and when your expectations are not fulfilled you will get disappointed very badly. Instead you join some job. Try to keep yourself occupied. Hope you can understand what I mean and these suggestions will definitely help you overcome this problem. If you need any further help kindly contact me either through text chat or through online consultation. Do not end up taking wrong decision. Always think about those who really care about you. Take care and Be relaxed.  

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