My college is once my best friend but now she is hiding allot of stuff with me and always hurts me with her actions and hiding about her relationship with opposite gender with me and feels she is correct at all times but the fact is she doesn't even can't image the future problems arise in the working area. How should I manage myself with anger on her as a senior to her in the working place.
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Whenever there is a free time or a holiday ,talk to her very politely, showing your concern towards her, give her a quality of time, because she's your best friend. Tell her all the pros and cons of her acts. But don't try to dominate her. Listen to her also. Don't scold her, otherwise she will again hide everything.
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Hello lybrate-user garu, greetings from your wellness coach. I can see that you are thinking too much about unwanted things up to the level of subconscious mind. Usually there are many such incidences do occur between friends and colleagues. The only way to come out is to speak with them openly and get the things cleared. Maintain limited relationship if they are not responding to you and better not to expect much from them so that you will be relieved and there would not be much burden in your mind. To calm your mind, I recommend you to follow yoga and pranayama. I think you need a bit of counselling and if you think so, you may consult me online. I can even speak in telugu.
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