My wife is not happy with daily happenings. She is not enjoying life. Even though assets are there for 50 lakhs, and bank balance of 10 lakhs, she worry about future and feels insecurity about my job. Every 3 months once we are in fight. She feels that I am not giving priority and not listening to her words. I told her many times that I am listening and changing myself lot for her. But she is thinking about what happened in the past and what I spoke when we were fighting and repeatedly recollecting them. I advice her every time that change the mindset and be happy and perish life's every moment. What to do? Shall I take her to psychiatrist or go for counseling?
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Counseling is better option as she might have some other thoughts if you take her to a psychiatrist. You have given your best to xplain her but may be when others say it might be more effective. And you shud go along while counseling to understand her better.
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Please read and share the following with your wife" REAL MEANING OF MARRIAGE: From a spiritual perspective one should feel that their partner is something more than just my husband or my wife. A husband should feel towards his wife that this is the daughter of God - this is God?s deeply beloved daughter that has been entrusted in my care. How you treat her is how God will receive you. How you speak to her, how you act toward her, how you protect her are all important. Protection is said to be on three levels - physical, emotional and spiritual. To give that protection, to be forgiving to each other and to honor your spouse as God's property, God's gift, is how you will make spiritual progress. And a wife should feel that her partner is not just her husband but he is God?s beloved child entrusted in her care to protect, to be faithful to, and to encourage. If you see each other in this light, marriage really is yoga. Your relationship will be yoga in essence and you will make great spiritual progress. - courtesy of HDG RS If you and your wife read Srila Prabhupada's books and practise transcendental meditation (mentioned in the books) you both will feel great satisfaction.
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Go for couples or marital counseling with your wife. Taking professional help will be useful in navigating the challenges of married life and improve the relationship.
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