We are newly married couple, whenever I had sex with my wife, my wife suffers from lower abdominal pain, even she is on top. What should we do?

Question

It appears there is difficulty in methods to enjoy the sexual intercourse. To begin with have a talk with her and understand her feelings, liking and dislikes about sexuality. Many a times in large number of couples the understanding sexuality is merely erection and penetration and this learning comes by the way generally people learn about sexuality i.e. By hearsay guidance by friends/elders and porn/internet watching. Such learning leads to more confusion and frustration whenever there is an issue with erection/penetration. Men and women understand and handle sexuality in different ways and this in depth understanding need to come from guidance by an expert sexologist. If you are really looking quality sexual/marital relationships then connect me directly along with your wife either in person or online/Skype on Lybrate. All the best.

Mukesh Trivedi · Accepted Answer

It appears there is difficulty in methods to enjoy the sexual intercourse. To begin with have a talk with her and understand her feelings, liking and dislikes about sexuality. Many a times in large number of couples the understanding sexuality is merely erection and penetration and this learning comes by the way generally people learn about sexuality i.e. By hearsay guidance by friends/elders and porn/internet watching. Such learning leads to more confusion and frustration whenever there is an issue with erection/penetration. Men and women understand and handle sexuality in different ways and this in depth understanding need to come from guidance by an expert sexologist. If you are really looking quality sexual/marital relationships then connect me directly along with your wife either in person or online/Skype on Lybrate. All the best.