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DHMS (Hons.)

Homeopathy Doctor•Patna
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Hi, lybrate user,
•You are psychologically sick and don't want to sleep alone in your house, need to accompany some one to feel safe.
•Go for meditation to reduce your stress, loneliness, monitoring your nerves to restore sound sleep at your house.
•Go for a walk in the morning to regulate blood flow ,nourishing your brain and body to feel good.
•Tk, homoeopathic medicine, underlying :
@ Passiflora Q -20 drops with 4tsfl of normal water -1 hour before ,going to bed in the...more
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Asked for female, 24 years old from Indore
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Hello doctor. Yesterday I (about 3-4 pm) went to my boyfriend's place. We cuddled (we were in our underwear), we touched his penis and precum and therefore we had precum on our fingers too then he fingered me while I guided him to my vagina (lights were off, neither of us had sexual encounter before). We did not plan to have sex, hence didn't have penetration. I read a few articles on practo that said I might get pregnant by fingering if there was precum on fingers. I haven't taken any contraceptive pills or anything yet. It's been about 36 hours. I have highly irregular periods and I never get my periods on time. Missing periods for 1-2 months is regular in my cycle, I even miss it for 4 months once sometimes. Altho I had last periods from 3rd november to 7-8th november (which I got after having periods in august) I don't know what to do next or how to proceed. I am still a student, can't get pregnant. My entire life would be ruined. I am really really stressed please guide.

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MD - Obstetrtics & Gynaecology, FCPS, DG...read more

Gynaecologist•Mumbai
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1) if you r sure it was precum it does not lead to pregnancy but most are not sure.
2) best is if 72 hours are not over take emergency contraceptive pill.- after taking the high hormonal emergency pill one gets withdrawal bleeding 5 to 10 days later, and then a new cycle starts.-new counting.
Presence of withdrawal bleeding means no pregnancy by sex prior to it.
3) if do not get withdrawal bleeding do blood test serum hcg-beta 15 days from sexual encounter.
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I am finding my husband's sexual behaviour abnormal. He seems to be asexual. Performs only as a duty. Even if I am in front of him he only gives pecks on the cheeks and lips and cuddle. He asks me to scratch his balls but, refuses to have sex. If at all we have, our only foreplay is smooch and nothing else. He doesn't opens his clothes and comes on top of me with bedsheets over him. He asked me to perform a 69 on the first day after 4 days of marriage. During honeymoon too he couldn't perform. I have to take my orgasm since, his organ doesn't reach till the point. Also we have had infrequent sex in the first 2-3 months and has been deteriorating to such an extent where we have had sex only once in 3 months. 3 times in 8 months to be honest. All this just within a year of our marriage. He is diagnosed with OCPD. Please help! He always says he is tired or stressed. Whereas, he can fidget with his mobile till midnight. He is disinterested in sex as he told me so. Was reluctant to go to the counselor as well.

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Bachelor of Ayurveda, Medicine and Surge...read more

Sexologist•Delhi
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Take Tablet shilajit two tab twice a day. You can use aswdhanda 50gm+satwari 50gm safadmusli 25gm +silageet10gm mix and use 1\2sppon morning evening with milk.
Eat a handful of strawberries before intercourse. Its high zinc content and glucose concentration can help you last longer.
Eating a banana just before sex could help improve your performance as it contains potassium. It also has a large amount of glucose that can help you last longer.
Drinking amla or gooseberry juice everyda...more
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Hello doctors, hope all is well. My wife and I are married for six years now and blessed with a baby boy (2 years old) my wife had a c section for the delivery. My wife is showing less interest in sex. We talked over the came to a understanding that we will mate once a week. However, due to her periods and other reasons, it will happen 2 times/twice a month. I am currently 33 years old and craving for sex, as she was away for her delivery to india for a very long time. When I approach her she is always in denial/rejection mode. It is kind of impacted my self esteem/self respect for quite some time. I am really pissed and stopped all intimacies with her (hugging, kissing, casual cuddling during a normal day) I help her in everything, shopping, house chores, child care etc. And even we have a house maid to take care of the cooking and other house chores. I tried talking to her to understand better, she says she is not interested in sex. I am very confused and depressed to some extent. I am trying to see is there any way to resolve this. Appreciate your help in this regard. Should I consult a sexologist or psychiatrist?

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C.S.C, D.C.H, M.B.B.S

Cardiologist•Alappuzha
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You need to slowly keep on doing all the foreplay like hugging, kissing, casual cuddling during a normal day and in bed. Gradually you try to see her problem and inform her of the need for intimacy to survive. If you can not handle you seek the help of a marriage counsellor along with her.
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I had been in a relationship with a guy for almost 4 years now. We broke up last week. The reason wasn't very simple neither was it complex which is why I need help. He needed physical intimacy in the relationship whereas I on the other hand did not really like getting physical. I liked being cuddled or kissed but getting naked and getting physical wasn't something I enjoyed. Most of the times, I used to pretend that I liked doing it only so as to make him happy. He would call me over to his home to spend some time but it had never really happened that we just held hands or kissed each other. It always got into getting undressed and doing things I never really liked. So eventually I stopped going to his place and started giving him reasons and avoided going to his place. We always used to have a fight on this topic. There were a few things he wanted me to change in myself. He said I was very short tempered and trust me I changed myself in that aspect a lot. Even he had a few habits that I wanted him to change but he never did. Basically I broke up because even after doing so much for the relationship, all he wanted was I to get physical with him. He did not want to respect my choice of not getting physical at all. This really put me in a dilemma that is getting physical in a relationship way more important than forming a strong emotional connection let alone with your partner, my partner's parents had already considered me their daughter and they love me so much. So basically when I weigh physical intimacy with the emotional bond in the relationship what weighs more?

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M. S. in Psychotherapy and Counselling

Psychologist•Jaipur
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For a girl definitely it is emotional bond where as for a boy it may be physical or emotional or both. For most of the boys it it physical bond which leads to emotional one.

Due to conditioning in Indian value system sex out of wedlock is considered as 'Paap' and it is taught from a younger age that sex is not a necessity specially for girls that is why most of the girls think the same way as you are thinking.

But the boy should have respected your feelings.

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