My wife is not willing to have intercourse till now it's nearly 2 months of marriage. She says she is scared of pain intercourse may cause and doesn't say anything else. Once I found that she was searching on internet about vaginal infection. I want to understand how to overcome this situation. Which specialist to consult?

Dr. Mukesh TrivediPsychiatrist34yrs exp

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Yes, This is a tricky situation for you. There are definite solutions and the probable cause is known to you that your wife is scared of sexual intercourse due to possible thought of pain. This is very very common situation in many couples and some of them are able to overcome this by developing proper understanding between husband and wife. The reason behind this is that usually by and large people learn sexuality by hearsay guidance by friends and relatives and by watching porn and that's beginning of the problem. People who are already married may know half-truths and have incomplete knowledge of sexuality. Now if your wife is searching internet for vaginal infection then even she is wanting to solve it and somebody known to her may have told her that she may be having Vaginal infection. And so she is searching this. Stop all this and connect directly either online or in person to express your issues along with your wife. Fear of sexual intercourse pain can cause frigidity and that will interfere in normal sexual relationships. Both of you need authentic understanding of basics of sexuality. Just relax and connect before making half-hearted attempts of sexual intercourse, because repeated failures would complicate the matter further. All the best. 

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