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I have a small family (spouse with 2 kids. My kids are school going. I have completed 13 years of my married life. So far, I lived along with my parents but now I have separated from my parents due to my spouse's issues. Upto 2008 there is no issue in my joint family, after that I have faced so many problems due to my mother- in- law. From there I have a issues day by day. After so many struggling with my wife I have take this separation. Still now, I can't understood I have did the right decision or not? My wife is not willing to live with my parents. She is not allowing my kids also to go to my parents. If I go to see my parents once in a week that is also not acceptance by my wife. My parents are eagerly want to see my kids. But she is not allowing. They are crying day by day. In this situation what I have to do? My kids are just 6 to 8 years old. If I got angered with my spouse it will affect my kids. Some times I think about my divorce also. In this situation, what I have to do? Please give me suggestion or any solution for this problem? Due to this problem, i'm not able to concentrate in my official work. From 2008 to 2015 I have changed 5 companies in 7 years. Please help me in this regards.
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Dear lybrate user. I can understand. This is a critical situation. You need both of to be happy. Parents asmwell as your family. For that you need to convince your wife. As a son, you are supposed to look after your parents in their old age. It becomes your duty. You have to categorically tell this to your wife. Use your authority and love to get her agree. You have to be stern in some of your actions. Your wife too should understand relationships. If you can't make her understand, I can do that. Family counselling is effective in such aspects. I suggest online family counselling for both of you. Take care.
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