I'm 19 years old and I want to know how to enjoy sexuality with my self or with a partner (gay) is it fine to be a gay and is sucking another persons penis good or bad.
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There are no specific rules as to enjoy sexual experiences. Being gay is allegedly an abnormal sexual preference that many people have. Oral sex among two male partners has no documented side effects, however there are concerns regarding hygiene and sexually transmitted diseases.
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I am happy that you have the courage to ask this question. Many a young men and women have such queries. To get back to your query, you are 19 years of age and your body is still going through the adolescence, teenage years and development. It is quite natural for a young guy who's sexuality is being moulded to get attracted to men and women. Such attraction can exist between two men out of emotional friendship need for a sexual outlet situation where only males are in close proximity just sucking someone's penis does not make one person gay. One person calls himself gay when he is sexually attracted to men to the" exclusion" of women. Recent research on sexuality has shown that sexuality is not black and white. I. E. Heterosexual and homosexual, but based on the liking, feelings, identification of self and experiences one can have sexual attraction or have sexual play with members of same sex. Thus sexuality is fluid. Even if you indulge in penis sucking with your partner, it doesnot make you gay. But you have to be strong about it. There are chances where the person who is making you suck his penis, photographs you or makes a video out of your act, and then forces you to do it again and again. This is wrong, and exploitative. But, having said that, why do you want to have a personal sexual experience at this age? is it that your friends who are having some sexual experience is" pushing" you to have it, just to be at par with them? is it that you are feeling that you have found a partner, with whom you are so attached that you want to be physical with him? is your partner forcing you to have oral sex with him? such men who force others to do sex, are often quite promiscuous themselves and so may carry infections from one partner to another. So beware of such persons if not, then its best to wait for a few years. Meanwhile, you can use your sexual fantasies and thoughts and masturbate on it. This is safer than having oral sex at such a age. There are instances when children have indulged in such experimentation and then have become confused about their feelings and experiences without any emotional context. Also some youth get so carried away by their experiences that they indulge in it compulsively, and even solicit anyone to have oral sex with them so be safe and choose wisely.
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