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I feel like subside. I am don't find the happiness around me the why it was before. My parents always want me to do as they want and I do even if it means to put my own feelings away, but I also want to live my life in my own way. I don't wanna leave them and I can't live like this with them. Not just that because I am not good in studies I get spoiled alot. Now day I feel happy with only my girlfriend as she understands me. I had once made my mind that I am gonna subside and I have even wrote a subside letter but my girlfriend rad the letter before I do something stupid and stopped me. My family also don't like the girl as she is my choice they want me to do a arrange marriage even when they them self has done an love marriage. I don't know what to do. I am really confused.

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You are living a life of your parents. First you have to calm your self with breathing exercise and write down your feelings in it. When you settled down talk to your parents about your feeling and what you want in your life. Tell them softly but confidently that you can not live like this but you want to live with them because you love them. Accept them as they are but express your self. Don't think about anything wrong. If you want to take any help from us you can contact us.
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