Hi I have been very stressed from past one month me going to loose my job after 7 to 8 days because my office is gonna shift. Infused with my career nd on top a friend of mine wants to marry me nd waiting for my decision. He says that he want me in his life I am 24 where I feel its not a correct tm for comments. Today from morning me feeling restless tired disinterested

Ms. Samiksha JainPsychologist11yrs exp

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You seem to be anxious about your future prospects about work and security about having stable income. Well that is something to worry if you haven' t got a job already and not enough to sustain you through the" no work" period. Do you have savings that you can depend on, have you posted your cv and given interviews? this might take time and you might just have to hold out and do your best and hope for the best. Be realistic and optimistic rather than worrying. Your present company isn' t the only one in the market. There are more players. Try to be calm and think objectively and gather your resources and use them. Even if you don' t land anything, at least you have given it a shot and did your best. Regarding the boy, you need to know if you are interested in him as future partner or not? is he ready to hold out and wait for you while you are searching for a job. If you can, take him on board and tell him what' s going on in your life. Also you might have to decide between giving in to his demand/ request vs. What you see as important for you right now. You are 24. If you can wait to get married, then why not? be assertive about your dreams and desires but talk to him respectfully without blaming him or yourself. 

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