Sir I am 27 years female .i am married last 4 month not able to do sex because of so much pain .i used all jelly and more time with fire play but at the time of sex can't tolerate that pain .i also used 2% xylocaine but nothing help .pls suggest bhi something.

Dr. Rahul GuptaSexologist13yrs exp

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Hello- For a variety of reasons, many women experience painful intercourse (?dyspareunia?) at some point in their lives. Researchers estimate that up to 60 percent of women experience episodes of genital pain that occurs just before, during or after intercourse. But the location and frequency of the pain varies greatly. You and your partner may be able to minimize your dyspareunia with a few changes to your sex routine. Try being on top of your partner during sex. Women usually have more control in this position, so you may be able to regulate penetration to a depth that feels good to you. Communicate with your partner what feels good and what does not. Also, longer foreplay can help stimulate your natural lubrication and reduce the pain of penetration, as do synthetic lubricants. 

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