Please take some time to help me out. I am posting here after exhausting all other sources, hoping to get some valuable advice. I am 34, working in it. My department is literally a heaven to pick girls. The atmosphere is very open, with the director himself having an affair with 3 of his managers. In our parties, outings, guys get girls drunk and touch them. Long story short, it is a casual workplace. I am someone who is got a very high libido, but have been a virgin. Being in the said atmosphere, I thought of experimenting & visited a sex worker. Since it was my first experience, it did not go well. I did not get an erection. Then, I visited two more girls in a gap of 4 months. Those experiences also did not go well. Also, my erection was not like the one when I masturbate. After these episodes, I have lost my libido completely. Hard to believe it, but this has happened. Masturbation attempts also do not cause it to raise. In fact, I have lost my ability to generate erotic thoughts. It is like that part of my mind that can generate these thoughts has gone to sleep. Every cloud has a silver lining. Here the silver lining is my life is peaceful, without a hyperactive libido. But, I am unmarried and want my libido back to get married. Currently denial marriage proposals giving one reason or the other. Cannot tell at home this has happened. Please advice/help. Will my libido get back to normal?