I got married in december 2014.1st night we did all things but it took so much time. My husband was unable to insert it. We slept and in morning 4am he tried again and got succeed. 2nd night of the marriage he watched movie whole night on lappy. 3rd night was the same. 4th night we did. He went to his job back in another city and come after 1 month. I sad to him for come on weekend but he did not and also not allowed me to come to meet him. He came for 2 days in morning. He always reach home in morning. When he reach home he do sex 1st. But in night he do not show interest. He like to watch tv late night. In feb we go for honeymoon. In 5 days honeymoon we did sex 2-4 times only. After 1 month he came home and I have to go my home and he did not show any interest into me. Whenever I said to him I want to live with him, he find out excuses. I leaved my job for stay with him. But he did not allow. Even family also get angry. In july I got pregnant. I abort the child coz I was not sure for this marriage. After 2 months separation he kept me with him. I started to live with him from october to till date. In this period for 15 days we were not together due to family reason. In this 1.5 half month we did sex in night only2-3 time. He likes to do it in day or evening not in night. He do sex and start his work again. When we do sex his penis takes time to insert. Not get harder much. He said in childhood (4-6 year age) his penis accidentally hurt. But after that he is fine. But I personally feel sex is paining for him. Please suggest how can I help my husband and make us sex like wonderful.