I'm 24 years old female married for one year. vaginal penetration had not occurred as it was extremely painful. We consulted a doctor and did check ups. Everything was fine and I was given lube. Then we had sex just few days back after using lots of lox gel. It was painless .but I felt the pressure against my rectum. Once it was over it disappeared. The next day even after a lot of try penetration didn't occur. Is it normal. When will I start to experience pleasure.