i am 26 years old female and married. I am very unhappy with my married life. I have become an usual witness to fights between my husband and his mother (widow) at home. There are many unknown reasons (which my husband says he can't reveal to me) due to which they frequently gets irritated. They both talk very abusively, hurt each other mentally, and always create a panic situation at home. I have come from a good family with peaceful environment, easy going parents and grandparents. I find it too difficult to adjust with these new people. Knowledge that my husband is hiding certain things from me, has also created trust issues in my mind. He says those past incidences with his mom is still there fresh in his mind which is making him act revengefully against her. But he won't share those with me. I feel both of them are mentally sick. And soon I will loose my sense seeing all these. His mother doesn't wish to go for a counseling. What am I supposed to do? I wish to have a peaceful married life, want my husband to behave in a mature way and solve my trust issues. Kindly help please. I am unable to explain everything in this small forum. Kindly excuse and please help me. I feel like screaming out loud. Please help.