Dear sir, I'm 27 year old guy, by profession I am a Medical representative living in a small village of Gujarat. I'm having problem because of my spouse, she always object my every decision, never supported me if I have done anything good for me or both of us. It is like she always do the things which makes me uncomfortable/unhappy. I have tried many times to make my married life but she is not interested, in fact telling me take your children and live your life, such a emotion less lady. My father in law and her relatives also expect that I live life on their condition. My father is a respected person in my village and nearby villages and he is also telling me, you understand because you are a mature man" So everyone is trying to advise me instead them as they are in faults (some faults they have made I don't want to disclose, it may go a legal matter for them. Sometimes I feel I leave these all but then I change for my childrens. I am having low mood, not talking to anyone in family, concentration problem, not able to decide, not able to go in crowd, always think of future. I have tried prothiaden 75 (Dosulepin 75 mg) my own for 4 months but no change in all symptoms. Sir, Please guide me now what can I do?
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hi dear, sit back and just relax.... my answer is there in your question itself... just why everyone is advising you? ?? its because you are a adjustable person and you are flexible. don't think your adjustable quality as a curse. imagine if you were just like your patner. ..what would your children do?? you can't avoid. We all know negative and postive attractions. consider your case as like that. It's gods decision. We can't change that or its may be rather correct to say that we have not learnt to say NO to a person we love so much. We expect alot from them. Don't worry dear.... be happy and courageous. let you be the role model for your children. TIME will change everything nd your patner too....GOD is watching all this... pray.. you search browse in Web for Lord krishna's wording. In BAHAGAVAT GITA .... said as " udhareth atmanatmaanam na atmaanam avasadhayeth" come on gentle man...get rid of all medicines... its all about your thoughts. .. be strong , confident and last but not least BRAVE AND SHARPER.
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