How one can think positive, how can one be happy if situation is very bad and going worse day by day. Father has extra marital affair, mother has extra marital affair. They have no money for their own children. No one respect me and my family I am female 26 years old, middle class family, ugly by face (bullied many times) and I have no job want to study but can't focus, failed many times in my curriculum. Trying many times to focus on life's possibility and positivity but the fact is that Why should I live a life when I have no future. Am I really a weed, a useless?

Dr. Col V C GoyalGeneral Physician42yrs exp

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Just relax and accept things as they come. Do not try to change the environment but fit your self best in the existing situation. If parent want to have their own life, let them, you have your own life, try to build it gradually. U can always find some ways of earning money to sustain your life. There is always light after the dark so be hopeful, things will change. Do some mediation and daily prayer at home or in mandir. First thing in the morning is go for a walk for 30 minutes it will change your life do it and report after 10 days good luck.  

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Dr. Jagadeesan M.S.Psychiatrist14yrs exp

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Parents can have extra marital affairs as they are adults. Dont be sad for ugly face, underlying personality is important. Set simple goals in life and try to achieve them, try to be happy about yourself and take the positives from your parents. All the best. 

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